Q. My 10-year-old daughter adores our 18-year-old neighbor, who babysits for us. She phones her and even goes over unannounced. I’m worried that my daughter is being too pushy. Should I leave it between them, or get involved?
A. It’s great that your daughter is close to her babysitter, but if you don’t set down guidelines, she (and you as the parent) may be putting the babysitter in the awkward position of either tolerating your daughter’s behavior or telling her to get lost. Take this opportunity to teach your daughter that good manners mean drop-ins and calls should be extremely limited. And tell the babysitter that while you appreciate her kindness, she should feel free to tell your daughter when she’s overstaying her welcome.
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